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Habits That Secretly Keep You Broke (And How to Break Them)
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- Siendu Damar
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You're Making Money, So Why Are You Still Broke?
Let's be honest. You're not making minimum wage. You've got a job, maybe even a decent one. Yet somehow, by the end of the month, your bank account is gasping for air.
You look at your spending and think, "I'm not being extravagant. Where's all my money going?"
Here's the uncomfortable truth: small habits, repeated over time, can drain your wealth just as effectively as one big purchase.
And the worst part? Most people don't even notice these habits. They're so normalized, so "small," that they fly under the radar.
But small leaks sink big ships. And these financial habits? They're quietly keeping you broke.
The "I Deserve This" Mentality
You had a rough day. Or maybe a great day. Either way, you "deserve a treat."
So you order food delivery. Buy something online. Grab an expensive coffee. Book a spontaneous trip.
And individually, none of these things are a problem. Treating yourself is fine.
But when "I deserve this" becomes your default response to any emotion, you've got a problem.
Bad day? I deserve this.
Good day? I deserve this.
Bored? I deserve this.
Stressed? I deserve this.
Every feeling becomes a justification to spend.
And the thing is, you do deserve nice things. But if you're constantly buying stuff to make yourself feel better, you're not treating yourself—you're using money as emotional regulation.
And that's expensive.
Buying Convenience Without Counting the Cost
Convenience is a luxury. And like all luxuries, it costs money.
Food delivery instead of cooking. Taxis instead of public transport. Subscriptions instead of one-time purchases.
Again, none of these are inherently bad. But when you choose convenience by default, without ever considering the cost, you're bleeding money.
Let's do some quick math:
- Coffee shop every day: 150/month
- Food delivery 3x a week: 240/month
- Random subscriptions you forgot about: $50/month
That's 5,280 a year. Just on convenience.
Now imagine if you cut that in half. You'd save $2,640 a year without dramatically changing your lifestyle.
The point isn't to never spend on convenience. It's to be aware of when you're choosing it and why.
Living Just Above (Or At) Your Means
This is the big one.
You get a raise. Great! So you upgrade your lifestyle to match.
New apartment. Nicer car. Better clothes. Fancier restaurants.
And suddenly, even though you're earning more, you're still broke at the end of the month.
This is called lifestyle inflation. And it's one of the biggest wealth killers out there.
The problem is, it feels justified. "I'm making more now. I should enjoy it."
Sure. But if every increase in income leads to an equal (or greater) increase in spending, you'll never build wealth.
You'll just be on a more expensive treadmill.
The smartest move when you get a raise? Live like you didn't.
Keep your expenses the same. Put the difference in savings or investments. Build a cushion.
Then, when you actually have wealth, you can enjoy it—without the stress of living paycheck to paycheck.
Not Tracking Where Your Money Goes
Quick question: how much did you spend last month?
If you can't answer within a rough range, that's a red flag.
A lot of people operate on vibes. They kinda know what they make, kinda know their big expenses, and assume the rest works out.
It doesn't.
When you don't track your spending, you underestimate how much you spend. You forget about subscriptions. You don't notice all the small purchases adding up.
And you definitely don't see patterns—like how you always overspend on weekends, or how every "quick grocery run" turns into $100.
You don't need a complicated system. A simple app. A spreadsheet. Even a notebook.
Just write down what you spend for one month. That's it.
You'll be shocked at where your money is actually going.
Buying Things to Feel Successful Instead of Being Successful
Here's a harsh one: some people buy the appearance of success instead of building actual wealth.
Designer clothes. Expensive gadgets. Flashy dinners. A car that's way too nice for their income level.
They want to look successful. So they spend money they don't have on things they don't need to impress people who don't care.
And meanwhile, they've got no savings. No investments. No financial security.
This is the opposite of wealth building. This is wealth faking.
Real wealthy people often don't look wealthy. They drive old cars. They wear normal clothes. They're not trying to prove anything.
Because they're focused on building wealth, not displaying it.
Ignoring Debt Because It's "Manageable"
Credit card debt. Student loans. Car payments.
You're making the minimum payments, so it's fine, right?
Wrong.
Debt with interest is a drain. Every month you carry a balance, you're paying money for the privilege of owing money.
And if you're only paying minimums, you're barely making a dent in the principal. You're mostly just feeding the interest.
People underestimate how much wealth gets eaten by interest over time. A $5,000 credit card balance at 20% APR? If you only pay minimums, you'll end up paying thousands more than you borrowed.
That's money that could've gone toward savings, investments, or actually enjoying life.
Debt isn't always avoidable. But treating it casually is a fast track to staying broke.
Waiting to "Have Enough" Before You Start Saving
"I'll start saving when I make more."
"I'll invest when I have a bigger cushion."
"I'll think about retirement later."
This mindset keeps people broke forever.
Because here's the thing: there's never a perfect time. When you make more, you'll have more expenses. When you have a bigger cushion, you'll find more things to spend on.
The only way to build wealth is to start now. Even small.
50 a month. Whatever you can.
The habit matters more than the amount. Because once you normalize saving, it gets easier. You adjust your spending around it.
But if you keep waiting for the "right time," you'll wake up ten years from now in the exact same spot.
Buying Things You Don't Need Because They're "On Sale"
"It was 50% off!"
Cool. But did you need it?
Because buying something you don't need, even at a discount, is still spending money you wouldn't have spent otherwise.
Sales are designed to make you buy. The discount creates a sense of urgency and makes you feel smart for "getting a deal."
But if it wasn't on your list before you saw the sale, you're not saving money. You're just spending less than you could have on something unnecessary.
A 50 isn't a 50 expense.**
Not Investing Because You Think It's Too Complicated
A lot of people avoid investing because it feels intimidating.
Stocks. Bonds. Index funds. Crypto. It all sounds complicated, risky, and reserved for people who "know what they're doing."
So they leave their money in a savings account earning 0.5% interest while inflation eats away at its value.
Here's the truth: you don't need to be an expert to start investing.
You can open an account, put money into a simple index fund, and let it grow. That's it.
Is there risk? Yes. But there's also risk in not investing—the risk that your money loses value over time and you never build wealth.
You don't have to go all in. Start small. Learn as you go.
But don't let fear or complexity keep you from one of the most effective ways to build wealth.
Trying to Keep Up With People Who Have Different Financial Situations
Your friend just bought a house. Your coworker went to Bali. Your sibling got a new car.
And you feel… behind.
So you start making financial decisions based on what other people are doing, instead of what makes sense for you.
This is a disaster.
You don't know their full financial picture. Maybe they're in debt. Maybe they have family money. Maybe they're making way more than you.
Comparing yourself financially to others is like comparing your blooper reel to their highlight reel.
Your wealth journey is your own. Your timeline is your own.
Stop measuring your progress by other people's milestones. Focus on your goals, your values, and your financial reality.
What to Do Instead
Okay, so what's the fix?
You don't have to overhaul your entire life. Just start with one or two habits:
1. Track your spending for 30 days
See where your money actually goes. You'll be surprised.
2. Automate savings
Set up automatic transfers to savings or investment accounts. Pay yourself first.
3. Pause before purchases
Wait 24 hours before buying anything non-essential. You'll often realize you don't actually want it.
4. Cut one recurring expense
Find one subscription, habit, or service you can live without. Redirect that money to savings.
5. Build a small emergency fund
Even $500 can stop you from going into debt for unexpected expenses.
6. Stop comparing
Focus on your own goals. Your pace is your pace.
Final Thoughts: Wealth Is Built in the Margins
You don't need to make six figures to build wealth. You just need to be intentional with what you have.
The difference between staying broke and building wealth isn't usually income. It's habits.
Small daily choices, compounded over years, create your financial reality.
So if you're tired of feeling broke despite working hard, start looking at your habits. Not to shame yourself, but to empower yourself.
Because once you see what's draining you, you can plug the leaks.
And that's when things start to change. 💰
